Living frugally without hardship: let's share actionable suggestions

Yes I meant water that contains more alkali and alkaline earth counter ions will balance the acidity added by the carbonation process.

That article did not completely decouple the effect of pH from the buffering effect of various counter ions. It correctly observes that mineral water does not cause much tooth decay (hydroxyapatite dissolution rate).

Another study from 1999 compared orange juice at pH 4 with orange juice added with calcium and found the same results. pH is one accelerator of erosion but it can be balanced by buffering effect from mineral ions in the drink.

The main conclusion is not really a surprise (especially if you think of the dissolution reaction equilibrium). A mineral water rich in calcium is basically not going to dissolve hydroxyapatite (a calcium phosphate) much due to the buffering effect of calcium. So it’s true that it’s a much better alternative as far as limiting tooth erosion goes. Same goes with orange juice with added calcium.

But I’m guessing as far as sodastream use goes, people are not starting from commercial mineral water in general (otherwise it may not be that much of a money saver lol). If you do, then I think you’re probably fine. But unless you have high calcium content in the water you’re going to carbonate, the carbonation is still gonna increase tooth erosion.

I’m in luck. Very hard water in New Orleans where I live.

One thing I have not yet seen mentioned is commuting by bicycle. I started this about a year ago by getting a decent used bike and it has become a favorite hobby. By buying used (at a good price), I was able to try a few bikes to find the style and size I liked without losing much money. This has not only saved on gas and maintenance, but it has improved my health greatly. My commute is about 5 miles one way.

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Good for you katsup. Commuting by bike is really catching on here in Seattle, even though we have more than our share of hills.

If you’ve got a backyard, one thing I used to do is line dry my clothes instead of using an electric or gas dryer. You save on gas/electricity, the cost of the appliance, but most of all, the cost of clothes. I’ve found that hot dryers really kill clothes quickly. The heat causes the cloth to deteriorate. On the other hand, when I line-dry clothes, they seem to last forever.

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SAHM here, husband is a mechanic. We live in a somewhat affluent community, have three sons, and do pretty well (if I say so myself).
Here’s what I/we’ve done over the past 20+ years:
No cable tv (but do have TiVo’s).
Rarely went out to eat, when the kids were little we only went if there were kids deals.
Library - books & movies (I don’t buy any)
I refuse to purchase some grocery items - pop being the biggest one. I despise bottled water. I only get Starbucks when I’ve turned some online rewards into a Starbucks coffee gift card.
No vacations (were lucky when the kids were younger that we had a family cabin to go to; now that was sold)
Shop clothing clearance for out-of-season items (I saved a ton by buying sizes ahead for the boys, and they all got hand-me-downs). We have Lands End outlet stores nearby, so a lot of our clothes come from there.
Compare grocery prices - take 10 items that you normally purchase and figure out which grocer has the best prices overall - then figure out the best way to make deals at that store. (For me, it Target + Cartwheel app + sales + coupon + Target CC + teenager’s employee discount). People around here think that our local “big” grocery store has the cheapest prices, but I learned about 15 years ago that their prices were very similar to our local “pricey” grocery stores. Their “huge” sale on one item, I found was actually cheaper everyday price at Target… and that’s when I changed.

I recently ported our home phone # to Google Voice, and hooked it up to VoIP, that will save around $25/month.
We use Ting for our cell phones, for the five of us it runs about $80/month
I just upgraded our thermostat through our utility company. Bought a $200 wifi thermostat discounted to $125, then got a $75 credit on our bill, and will get a $25 credit annually - for them to bump up our thermostat a degree or two during the summer peak ac cooling times.
Our five vehicles are maintained by my husband, no major problems. We bought most of them new and have kept them for years (including my 1986 Camaro and 2002 Tahoe).

ETA - best thing I did was when DH inherited $10k from his grandmother I put it in Vanguard Healthcare Fund some 18 years ago. We never added to it, just let it sit… it’s now worth $120k and will be split 3 ways for our son’s college funds.
(Except for our oldest who got a full scholarship, I’ll give him his share when he buys a house).

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Even if you don’t have a back yard, an indoor clothesline is a worthwhile investment for preserving clothes. Be sure to rig up a fan to circulate the air in the room so they dry quickly to prevent molds/mildew for setting in.

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Flowbee works for me. It takes 5 mins and really does a good job! I have my original one from the late 80’s.

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To add on to this, I usually drink water out of the tap, but during the hot months, it does unpleasant things to me. We use a Brita water pitcher to get around this. When I need replacement filters, I shop around, but Target usually has the best price. With the 5% off on the REDCard, plus free shipping, combined with using a cashback portal site, it’s an extremely inexpensive way to get better water.

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Okay, I’ll ask. Why do you think I live in NJ?

edit: Brian, it’s nice to see you posting

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mom2jel, that’s an inspiring post. Some of your cost-saving measures likely cross the line into what some folks might consider hardship, but they’re obvious working for you.

One thought on your below comment:

Did you open an IRAs for yourself or your hubby?

The reason I ask is that funds like VG account will be counted against your “need” on any college financial aid forms you fill out for your other kids, as they are deemed “available assets.” OTOH, if they were in IRAs, they would be 100% exempt. Of course they would also be deferred or exempt from taxation as well.

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That FrankenPrius sounds dangerous.

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yes, but my husband is a wizard with cars (as well as a certified mechanic with 25 years experience) and I trust him to give me a safe car. He meticulously checks tires and brakes and everything that could go wrong. The accident I got in was not my fault and despite it was hit by an SUV, frankenprius held up well.

I’m not recommending this for everyone, but my topic sentence was using the job skills you have to save you money in your personal life.

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Direct to Consumer (DTC) furniture sellers are reduce the cost significantly (e.g. Article [dot] com) and IKEA)

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I can appreciate that, but that’s not really actionable by anyone else here. Still really cool that he was able to build a ideals car from scaps though.

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Why so cryptic?

No offense to any IKEA fans, but if you’re promoting IKEA, I just looked at their dining room sets and they look like garbage compared to the set I got from Wayfair. Some were even more expensive.

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Not being cryptic - just giving a few examples of frugal alternatives to traditional furniture sellers. Have you checked Article furniture?

Keep in mind, I’ve had good and poor quality purchases with all of these vendors (incl. Wayfair) - so I suggest looking at reviews and doing your due diligence first.

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I downloaded the Raise app for discounted gift cards. I don’t use it much if I’m doing a planned purchase but if I happen to be out and there’s a discounted GC available on the app, I can use it right away.

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Agree about reading those reviews. Just checked Article.com and looked at their dining tables. Too contemporary for me. They want more money for just a dining room table than I paid for a dining room table and 6 chairs. Although I’ll agree that it’s still cheaper than buying from most furniture stores.